有朋自远方来

Today, I received an email from one of my friends. She gave birth to a chubby boy and sent me some photos of her son. He is so lovely！
In the life, there are always so many things that are full of sorrow, but sometimes a spark of happiness will let you believe that in fact life is beautiful. Therefore, in China, I admire one sentence "难得糊涂", which means that under most occasions you should let it go,you should keep one eye open and another close. Otherwise, life is too hard and you will earn nothing from it. A typical example is one of the main characters Wang Xifeng in "the Dream of Red Mansion". She is too shrewd to win anything at last.